One of the impactful methods I’ve been capable of mirror on all that has occurred in my life is to revisit what I’ve written, the music I’ve listened to, and the way I’ve lived in my properties. Trying again on these experiences brings up emotions and reminiscences that I in any other case would have forgotten. (Which jogs my memory… I want to write down issues down extra typically!)
Since this month on Wit & Delight has been all about private fashion, it appeared becoming to look again on how my private inside design fashion has advanced through the years.
Right this moment I’m reflecting on my design tendencies up to now 4 properties I’ve lived in and assigning three phrases to every one.
My First Solo Residence
My three phrases for this residence’s design: eclectic, cozy, playful

My first solo house was all about studying to have—and luxuriate in—a spot of my very own. Right here, I discovered what it meant to take care of a house and produce it to life. I discovered that the act of designing a house just isn’t frivolous, however a method of working towards self-care.
On this house, I started to stretch my design muscle mass. I purchased a brand new sofa for the lounge and every little thing else was from Fb Market, a thrift retailer, or a hand-me-down from family and friends. Even with my small price range, right here I discovered that designing a spot only for you will be so fulfilling.
My first solo house was all about studying to have—and luxuriate in—a spot of my very own. . . . Right here I discovered that designing a spot only for you will be so fulfilling.

Our Trendy Metropolis Residence
My three phrases for this residence’s design: eclectic and comfortable with pops of coloration
When Joe and I moved into this house, I believed to myself, it’s so new—when what I actually wished was an old-school loft with historical past and character. To distinction the trendy construction, I introduced in additional classic parts and furnishings.
On this house, I experimented with design parts and tried to determine what my “grown-up” inside design fashion was. I attempted to steadiness my style with Joe’s design needs, which I discovered have been largely about performance. Even now, I can look again at this house and see similarities to my present design sensibilities, though this contemporary house is a world away from our very conventional residence now.

The First Home We Bought
My three phrases for this residence’s design: traditional, ethereal, punctuated with modernity

This was the primary home Joe and I bought. We spent quite a bit of cash on residence updates whereas dwelling right here. We put $200K into numerous renovations, which we recouped after we bought it in 2020.
The sq. footage was comparatively small at 1,700 sq. toes (2,200 sq. toes as soon as we redid the basement) and we utterly reimagined the format. What I discovered on this home was the worth of actually thoughtfully-planned smaller areas. Right here, I attempted to seek out the intersection between what the center needs and what’s proper for the house itself.
Once I look again at this home, I see the way in which I used to be beginning to use colours, notably in smaller rooms. I chosen brilliant wallpapers for 2 of the bogs and painted the workplace cobalt blue. The undercurrent of craving extra coloration was already starting to current itself in my design tendencies.
Our Present Home
My three phrases for this residence’s design: colourful, eclectic, cozy
Now we have at all times wished to stay within the neighborhood we’re dwelling in now. When the chance got here as much as purchase this home, it felt like kismet. After we truly moved into the home in Might 2020, I used to be within the midst of questioning who I used to be. I used to be actually burnt out with social media and was making an attempt to cope with the load of the pandemic.
This has been a house the place I’ve taken greater design dangers than I had up to now. It’s the house the place I borrowed and constructed upon plenty of the inspiration that was already right here. On this home, I’ve tried out the far finish of what my dream world may appear to be. It’s been an actual present to experiment extra with coloration and sample and has helped construct my confidence within the course of. My private fashion and the way I strategy inside design are so a lot clearer to me now—that’s what this home has given me.
My private fashion and the way I strategy inside design are so a lot clearer to me now—that’s what this home has given me.
Out of all of the issues I’ve come to know about my private inside design fashion whereas dwelling right here, it’s that I like areas that really feel heat. It’s one of the vital widespread issues individuals who go to our residence say—that it feels cozy and heat. That, I’m studying, is a constant by means of line by way of what I’m drawn to within the design world.

Kate is at present studying to play the Ukulele, a lot to the despair of her husband, youngsters, and canine. Comply with her on Instagram at @witanddelight_.